Debra Fileta @DebraFileta
Faith-Forward Professional Counselor, Podcaster, Speaker. Writing about relationships & mental health. truelovedates.com Lancaster, PA Joined January 2010-
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When you know who you are, you recognize the type of person who matches your life from the type of person who doesn't.
If you want a better marriage, start by becoming a better you.
Marry someone who knows how to make you smile, but more so wants to make you smile.
Embracing your singleness doesn't mean that you give up the desire to find true love, but that you learn to enjoy the ride. How could you be maximizing the time in this season that God has you in??
Be intentional with your apologizes and try your best not to do the same thing again. True repentance produces change.
Hiding sin does not free you. Only in God's light are we able to truly be set free.
Sometimes what we call “spiritual warfare” is really self-neglect. Caring for your physical body—your God-given temple—is a vital part of soul care. Because when we’re depleted, sick, and running on empty, it’s hard to live out all God has called us to do. @DebraFileta
The only way to avoid looking desperate is to stop believing that you are.
Imagine if we obsessed over "best-case scenarios" instead of the worst.
Feeling burnout is not a reflection of your strength, it's a reflection of your boundaries.
If you are consistently piling more and more and more things on your plate without taking anything off, eventually, the plate will break.
Make no mistake, marriage problems are never really about the marriage. They're about the two individuals in the marriage, bringing their problems together.
Even the ""last ditch effort" can be the one to save your marriage. Do the work and don't give up on hope.
Don't let the good things take the place of the best things.
Marriage can be a resource of motivation and encouragement, but it can never make you whole.
Life doesn't start when you get married. Life is happening now. So live it to the full.
Pride is the number one thing that negatively influences arguments, conflict, and tension in a relationship. Choosing Marriage, page 82-83

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