Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

He plots. He nips. He's chaotic good. bit.ly/GooberPlots Joined October 2023

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

a hour ago

The shoulda/coulda/woulda is deeply connected w/ shame, guilt. Don't worry. You weren't looking to control the situation, you wanted to believe in something more , including to your presence could have the ability to make a difference. You're feeling bad abt it & blame yourself

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

2 hours ago

Myron didn't "have" to discover this extreme coercive control technique -- either to reach the status of DV/abuser Or high enough levels to reach NPD or to be able to manipulate my life. My decision making.

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

2 hours ago

I can have nothing on my mind and still have no space available for the narcissist. 🧘‍♀️

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

2 hours ago

A narcissist DEPENDS on your empathy as much as they depend on your time and attention. Just like how they take advantage of Active Listening.

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

2 hours ago

Narcissist: Keep talking, I'm still am the victim and you're not.

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

8 hours ago

M Narcissist/Abuser: you can't think that, feel that, believe that, research that because I'm the victim and you're not.

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

17 hours ago

I think it takes a special kind of courage to wonder if the "entire" area is aiding the narc/abuser, believe in their projected guarantee outcome & CHOOSE to live as if they're not. To feel that happiness as if they haven't sabotaged it.

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2 days ago

Woman Walking under a Cherry Tree, by Komai Ki, 18th century

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

21 hours ago

It's September, the Full Corn Harvest Moon is this weekend, and Mabon/Autumn Equinox right around the corner. 🍁🍂🌕🍇🌽 youtu.be/_Pt39gh9CbI?fe…

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

a day ago

Addicts/Narcissists: why start only to have to quit later. If she/that person quits they will no longer be one of "us" and that person can't betray "us" by quitting.

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

2 days ago

Maybe I don't have to respond OR react to the narcissist and their projections.

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Holly Leymeister @GooberPlots

2 days ago

I've seen some real outrageous narc suggestions over the years. Like how I suffer from imposter syndrome because I "lost my self" by trying to please the narc AND I am trying to control other ppl at the same time.