i avoid eggshell type of relationships, can’t express yourself, can’t be yourself, can’t ever be straight forward, can’t be comfortable, can’t talk like adults, can’t be heard, can’t respond with love without it turning into something negative…..
@Iamivy05 Living in the shadow of your former self is excruciating. I understand the struggle to reclaim your voice and sparkle. It's like finding pieces of a puzzle, but with patience and kindness, you'll rebuild. Keep pushing forward
@Iamivy05 Most relationships have a very short lifespan. The rest that survive become stronger with time, passing every test.
@Iamivy05 Healthy relationships should feel like soft ground, not a tightrope. You deserve a space where honesty and comfort come naturally
@Iamivy05 it can’t even become a relationship honestly if it’s like that 😬
@Iamivy05 Preach! 🙌 Life's too short for relationships that stifle your voice. Let's create spaces where we can be real, express ourselves, and love without limits!💪❤️
@Iamivy05 I accidentally said this to a narcissist (i didnt know at the time) he got so mad at me. I didnt understand why at the time. I just told him that i didnt want to “walk on eggshells”. Dodged a bullet speaking the truth as i had done. He was triggered i picked it up so fast lmao.
@Iamivy05 Relationship where everything u said is analyzed and used against you, everything is misinterpreted. RUN
@Iamivy05 We're not alone in living multiple lives – pre-trauma and post-trauma. But our stories, voices, and resilience bridge that gap. Sharing your truth helps others find courage.
@Iamivy05 dealing with a hyper defensive partner sucks.
@Iamivy05 Healthy relationships shouldn’t feel like walking on eggshells. You deserve a connection where you can be open, authentic, and safe to express yourself fully. Anything less isn’t worth the energy.
@Iamivy05 I had to give up on a longtime friendship in June because I realised that I always agreed with their opinion and the first time I disagreed, they brought up an event that had hurt me in the past as a punchline. That was my cue to let go.
@Iamivy05 I’m so proud I escaped my last relationship that was like this. It was soo traumatic but I’m healing daily from it!
@Iamivy05 This. Only unhealthy and toxic people require you to walk on eggshells around them and I’m not in the mood anymore 😊
@Iamivy05 For her I might rearrange the tiny bits and pieces of the egg shell until she straightens her back up, lifts that chin smiles and learns to navigate her mind.
@Iamivy05 I don't ever wanna walk on eggshells with anyone-ever again!
@Iamivy05 Yep! Had a best friendship of 17 years devolve into this.
@Iamivy05 @Ga_cherry_nasee I completely get that! Life is too short to be in relationships where you feel like you're walking on eggshells. Healthy relationships should be about openness, mutual respect, and honest communication and without the fear of being misunderstood or judged.
@Iamivy05 @samesugartits This is why you should totally and unapologetically be yourself from day 1. That way, the overly-sensitive "eggshell" type people will see "red flags" and "icks" and leave you alone.
@Iamivy05 @NteshNgcobo I hate this shit. There’s people I deliberately don’t talk to because of this, some even family.
@Iamivy05 I've been really lonely lately. I've been thinking about getting back together with an ex who keeps saying we should try again. This post right here is the slap in the face reality check I needed to see. Thank you
@Iamivy05 I have some things to say about these kind of relationships and the way they change your relationship with yourself and the world around you
@Iamivy05 What if you do act like an adult when you upset but the other person always gotta say some passive aggressive shit in a normal tone to make it seem like they not being passive aggressive??
@Iamivy05 That's the type of relationship almost everyone wants but it takes a lot of consciousness and time to get such, I mean why's a woman seeing her man as weak because he communicated his fears but same woman wants the man to listen to all her complaints and rants
@Iamivy05 When you marry for money, or out of your league, and are made to sign a prenup, you will walk on egg shells. You'll even be afraid of breathing too loud.