dont get married just because it’s “what we should do next”. get married because it's what YOU want to do. dont ever let the expectations of your family, friends or society dictate the timeline of your relationship.
dont get married just because it’s “what we should do next”. get married because it's what YOU want to do. dont ever let the expectations of your family, friends or society dictate the timeline of your relationship.
@Iamivy05 This is the way it should be! But when it comes to this case, most people don't even know they are being controlled.
Exactly. Rushing into marriage to meet external timelines is what psychologists call “social clock pressure.” When people follow it blindly, they risk mistaking compliance for commitment. Real commitment comes from intrinsic choice; when your values, readiness, and relationship alignment dictate the step, not everyone else’s calendar.
@Iamivy05 @pallnandi Rushing into marriage because of outside pressure is how people end up resenting each other just a few years later. Marriage is a commitment that should be for and from the couple.
Marriage is not a timeline. It is not the next chapter written by your family or society. It is a sacred contract of energy. When you join with someone from pressure, you don’t merge souls you fracture them. When you join from truth, your frequencies align and reality itself begins to support you. The universe does not reward duty. It rewards authenticity. So don’t marry because it’s expected. Marry because your spirit is ready to expand through another.
@Iamivy05 Marriage, not something you can just jump in into like that
@Iamivy05 rushing into marriage to please others often leads to regret. Your commitment should match your readiness, not someone else’s expectations or pressure from tradition.
@Iamivy05 Absolutely. Just be mindful that if you do want to have kids, the female body does have a time constraint.
@Iamivy05 Yes, marriage should come from your heart, not pressure.
@Iamivy05 I hope people actually understand this
You know what’s funny? People treat marriage like it’s a graduation ceremony. Like—“oh, you’ve been dating 3 years? Time to get married!” No. Life isn’t a checklist, and relationships aren’t achievements you unlock. They’re living, breathing things that take time, patience, and growth. Getting married because society says so is how people end up in relationships that look perfect on Instagram but feel empty behind closed doors. Do it when you’re both truly ready. Until then, let them talk.
@Iamivy05 this is very accurate. ppl be playing with their life.
@Iamivy05 Absolutely agree—marriage should be a personal choice driven by your own desires, not external pressures. Timelines are individual; do what feels right for you.
@Iamivy05 Solid advice. Marriage should be a personal choice, driven by your own desires and readiness, not external pressures. Timelines are individual—ignore the noise from family, friends, or society. Do it when it feels right for you.
@Iamivy05 Absolutely agree—marriage should be a personal choice driven by your own desires and readiness, not external pressures. Do what feels right for you and your partner, on your own timeline.
@Iamivy05 Truth Marriage should be about your love commitment and readiness not about meeting others expectations. Follow your heart, not the clock or societal pressure. Make decisions that are right for you and your partner not just to fit in
@Iamivy05 I dont think this is an unpopular opinion, even tho ppl are pressured by the opposite
@Iamivy05 This train of thought should translate to all areas of life.....
@Iamivy05 Don’t marry for love, marry for teamwork.
@Iamivy05 They (parents) guilt me with their future death sis 😂
