Haibo so they are really getting a divorce?š¤¦š¾āāļøI thought it was just for views š±
@Sadmethod pregnancy & miscarriage are two things a man will never fully understand. her mothers comfort in that moment was not a reflection of anything he lacked. she just could relate to her on a level he didnāt at that point and thereās nothing wrong with that.
@Sadmethod What a bad example to use for a hurtful memory, Iām not a woman so if my partner was in pain post a miscarriage and requested her mum to come Iād call her mum. She understands better than I ever could about what her body is going through. The other stuff I get but miscarriage
@Sadmethod But she just wanted her mom, how can that make him feel unworthy. She has her mother that she can call, how is that a sin in his eyes. He says it himself that she was in pain, pain that him as a man will never know thatās why she wanted her mother.
@Sadmethod I feel sorry for men who are never appreciated for being there. Always being compared and not giving benefit of the doubt. Stay strong!!!!!
@Sadmethod Bathong mara, men deserve love and affection too. š„ŗ But I really hope they both heal and find partners who are compatible for them. Those uncut videos of them were really a depiction of how they treated each other that relationship/marriage. š
@Sadmethod Argh sham. Imagine making your wifeās miscarriage about you. Anyway, I hope they both heal & find happiness.
@Sadmethod Men are so annoying because why shouldnt she call her mom when shes experiencing loss of a child
@Sadmethod Eish ā¦.Heās probably coming from a good place but her saying that she needs her mom in THIS situation doesnāt mean YOU are not needed ā¦.His response to it doesnāt s bordering on narcissism and Iām afraid my guy doesnāt even realize it š¤¦š¾āāļøš
@Sadmethod My brother chose himself
@Sadmethod He wasnt mature to understand that when pain cuts too deep u will feel better to share with a parent its just nature ..mm even when a grown man is being punched deeeply he wont cry for anyone but mama
@Sadmethod I see comments saying she lost a child and needed her mom. Yena what did he lose? Nothing?? He also lost a child and wanted to be there for his wife for them to navigate the loss together. If she was leaning on him he wasnāt going to feel like calling mom means heās useless.
@Sadmethod This comment section is a small glimpse of why men never talk about their emotions. The broer didn't say she was wrong for wanting to call her mom. He only expressed how that made him feel. Could be that she never even looked to him for support & he felt invisible in that moment
@Sadmethod Why are people making it either or situation, why cant she get support from both her mom and husband? Also, does seeking support from a parent automatically means you donāt want your partner to support you?
@Sadmethod Honestly the brother dodged the bullet there , I watched few of their videos and I think he was being undermined
@Sadmethod Sometimes all you need is your mom Hae personal hao
@Sadmethod I feel him a lot on this one honestly when you try and try and she just doesn't respect you, she was never his to have
@Sadmethod Lol she hated him.š wouldnāt care to call my mom when my man is right here w me wtf.
@Sadmethod But guys if you watch the whole thing,Hungani went on to explain that he understood why Steph would want her mom because even for him there are times where he just needs his mom. However , he was just painting a picture of where he was emotionally during that time.
@Sadmethod She treated him like a child, āage doesnāt matterā really?
@Sadmethod Selfish ass. She is having a miscarriage and the thing that breaks your heart is that she needed her motherās support? What? lol
@Sadmethod If he was in pain and wanted his mom too instead of his wife the comment section would have been so different and brutal. š„²š
@Sadmethod People think people just start reacting from one incident? like there's no build up? nothing? š There's obviously more. And he was just sharing how he felt. He never said it's wrong or right.But when someone makes you feel like your presence is not needed, you ought to feel hurt
@Sadmethod Good gents arenāt appreciated enough
@Sadmethod You see the problem with watching snippets without getting the full context. People are now commenting on issues that have nothing to do with what he actually said in the podcast.
@Sadmethod Uyaxoka lo he made this up! Thereās no way you would feel abandoned or worthless when a person want her mom! Her mom would be the best anchor after a miscarriage š« Woman to Woman sorta support š«” Tbos kinda gives off narcissistic vibesā¦
@Sadmethod He was actually talking about fatherhood not the marriage. I watched the whole episode and he said nothing about them divorcing nor did he say anything about them being together still.
@Sadmethod I donāt think Hungani is saying there is something wrong with his wife wanting her mom in that moment. What I THINK he is saying is, in that moment he felt helpless. The fact that there was nothing he could do to help or be there for her in that moment made him feel helpless.
@Sadmethod I think this should be a learning curve to men. You do not marry a woman older than you be it days months or years. Woman will want to control toy because she's the older one in the relationship. "Oka se mpotse selo o ngwana wena" š¤. Don't say you were not warned
@Sadmethod Couples should never experience these things separately, yes the lady carries the child but the dad also grows excited and happy for whatās to come. They needed each other, he needed his wife
@Sadmethod Men are really lucky that most women chose to be submissive and not love themselves enough. Otherwise, the male suicide rate would be higher than the price of petrol. Just look at this man-child crying and making a whole miscarriage about himself! Females are really soldiers šŖš¾
@Sadmethod You can't shield them all bro, you're only one star.
@Sadmethod Some things are not for shows or podcasts
@Sadmethod He overreacted tho. Women always need their mother's in situations like this. If she were to give birth, she'd also need her mother in the first 1 - 3 months
@Sadmethod But guys wait, a woman in that situation asking you to call her mom, doesnāt mean you your presence is not enough. I get his side of the story though. No one will comfort you like the woman who gave birth to you.