everyone loves intense passionate ppl bc we make them feel important and it feeds their ego but mfs never stop to think of how soul crushing it is to love so intensely and nvr get that energy back
like shit b so lukewarm. U need to b willing to d/e for me cuz that’s how I’m coming behind my loved ones.
@_bbytorch @IamDajanae Have we all just woke up tired of being the go-to person for people we can't go to? Cause...yes. All of this.
@_bbytorch forreallllll especially with friends🙄 they’re the worst heart breaks for me
@_bbytorch only give your energy where it’s valued and reciprocated.
@_bbytorch Right once u stop cuz u noticed it ain’t being reciprocated then all of a sudden shit hits da fan like it gets awkssss…🫣
@_bbytorch That's why it's good to learn to read energies so you know when to leave or it will continue like that forever. Anything that happens to you,you allow it. If you don't allow it then it won't happen.
@_bbytorch & they will never put they ego to the side to love & give you the same treatment bacc.
@_bbytorch Gotta learn to feel that passionately about ourselves
@_bbytorch @mazzaaa_ They don’t care. They will never “stop to think” about how their actions negatively affect us. Those people don’t do introspection & have zero empathy.
@_bbytorch Me sitting in bed at 3am smiling bc I’m so proud of my friends accomplishments knowing they haven’t thought about me in weeks.
@_bbytorch yup. never had someone capable of returning the same amount of passion and love etc.
@_bbytorch i just want it back in return is that sm to ask🤨🤨🤨
@_bbytorch It hurts so much when people don’t return the energy and only think of themselves 💔.
@_bbytorch to avoid burnout you have to know your limits & set them !! And also pick a partner with an attachment/romantic style that is accepting of that type of love & can reciprocate 🫶🏽
@_bbytorch It’s so crushing, you start to feel a bit hollow with emotions over time. I’m trying very hard not to slip into a black hole due considering my saying experiences have only been this
@_bbytorch And they will soon start to even decrease their attention towards you because you did a pretty good job in feeding their ego so they don't need it more
@_bbytorch this why I strive to love less intense until I find somebody who loves as intense as me fr. Saves a lot of hurt
@_bbytorch In my experience when I have gotten that energy back it has quick potential to turn toxic but I might just be messed up
@_bbytorch @therealesohe No fr, where’s the support group at????
@_bbytorch life as a scorpio venus..
@_bbytorch people don’t even know how to love that intensely
@_bbytorch Very painful to experience especially when it’s often. I’ve stopped loving so much because I RARELY ever get the love I give back especially when it comes to intimate relationships with men.
@_bbytorch I'm literally going through this right now but I realized that I can never truly stop caring and what ever happens next it won't change how my heart feels about her.
@_bbytorch No human who isn’t family is worthy of this. Especially if it is one-sided.
@_bbytorch If it crushes the Soul, then it wasn’t Love. Love Gives & Re-Gives. Love never takes be-loved! 💜💡
@_bbytorch It turns you into a stoic pessimistic person frfr. Being genuine and kind with people, being considerate of others feelings only to not get the same in return!?!? It makes you wanna say fuck people sometimes.
@_bbytorch I have never felt more heard in my entire life.....