A man cannot demand softness without first offering safety. That is just delusional.
@hell_line0 Vulnerability requires trust, and trust requires security. You can't expect openness without providing a safe space.
@hell_line0 if you ain’t offering safety then what you want isn’t softness it’s submission and that’s just control in disguise
@hell_line0 Exactly. Her softness is a response, not a duty. Safety is the frame-without it, you're asking her to bloom in concrete. Level up, fellas.
@hell_line0 A man cannot demand softness without first offering safety
@hell_line0 Exactly, trust comes before vulnerability Safety has to be mutual, not one-sided Expecting softness without it is unrealistic
The problem is most men have no fucking clue on how to offer safety. She doubts him for a millisecond and he get’s nervous. She’ll never feel safe if you’re not fully present in the moment. If you’re not, then you’re escaping into your mind, your thoughts, your ego, your phone, etc. You have to feel safe first in order for her to feel your safety.
@hell_line0 Who wants it soft? Every brotha including myself like it hard. just like most of these hoes out here in the streets. y’all love it hard. Big daddy‘s here to give it to you.
@hell_line0 A man never demands or demands sweetness from a woman. When he shares his security with her, she gives it to him willingly and unconditionally. A confident man never begs for anything.
@hell_line0 true trust and safety must come first before expecting vulnerability or softness from anyone...
