all a girl wants is to not have to ask not because she’s spoiled but because being understood without asking tells her nervous system she’s safe here when you’ve spent years translating your needs into something palatable or been told you’re “too much” for having them asking starts to feel like begging and begging feels like risking rejection so when someone just notices, just does it’s not about the flowers or the favor it’s about finally exhaling in a place where you don’t have to justify existing
@luvmaddieee This some emotional illogical shit that a Picses would say
@luvmaddieee Me, subtly leaving hints like breadcrumbs leading to the exact thing I want... and still ending up asking.
@luvmaddieee @simplyunclassy Well, how we gonna know what she wants? Oops. I’m busted.
@luvmaddieee The best men read the need before it’s spoken.
@luvmaddieee The feminist want a signed contract and video testimonial first.
@luvmaddieee All a girl really wants is for someone to notice her needs without her having to spell them out, to feel seen, cared for, and understood without begging for the basics.
@luvmaddieee Speak up clearly. Be an adult. Don't speak in "riddles and hints". Clarity is essential. This way your man will love you and provide for you. Don't be a child.
@luvmaddieee I'm a guy and good point. What I want from a girl who doesn't want me to tell me rather than be 2 faced about it.
@luvmaddieee yup buying her stuff without her saying anything 😛
@luvmaddieee One second let me work on telepathy like im in an anime
@luvmaddieee It’s true. Common human decency is lost on them. It’s like I tell my two year old, “use your words.”
@luvmaddieee We don’t take hints, we won’t follow habits, we are not reading minds. Until then, you may have to ask.
@luvmaddieee That's all men want too. Not to have to ask! Yall shut up we'll shut up
@luvmaddieee That’s unrealistic babes. Should u have to ask all the time no. But at some point someone will ask for clarification
@luvmaddieee @TheeBestZu No truer words have been spoken 👏🏼 🙌🏼 🙏🏼 ❤️