@luvvcraving01 Hide your kids from kids raised by single mothers.!!
@luvvcraving01 Doesn’t matter if the kids have different parents, and ya’lls skin different, if you’re there everyday, raising them, making sure they’re fed, they’re seen, they’re clothed, they’re happy, they’re your kids. Also, kids who grow up from a young age together, are siblings.
Most parents focus on protecting their kids from failure instead of teaching them how to handle it They remove obstacles instead of building resilience, they give participation trophies instead of honest feedback They solve problems instead of teaching problem-solving The most neglected skill in parenting? Teaching children to be comfortable with discomfort
@luvvcraving01 Sending a child to school is not the same thing as training a child. Providing for a child is not the same thing as caring for a child. Children under 12 define care by how much attention and time you give to them.
@luvvcraving01 We have to stop fear based parenting and parenting without intention Just because you were raised a certain way, doesn’t mean you should do the same. There needs to be a reason for what you’re doing with a goal in mind. How else can we be confident they’ll be prepared otherwise?
@luvvcraving01 Loving your child and teaching your child how to love are two very different and equally important things.
@luvvcraving01 Parenting isn’t ownership, it’s stewardship. 💯 'Teach children how they should live, and they will remember it all their life' Prov. 22:6 NIV. 🤲 🙏 Guide them with love, discipline, and faith and in due time God will make you happy in their future
@luvvcraving01 It’s not hard as people make it seem. It takes compassion, dedication, and consistency. Those are only three things
@luvvcraving01 Parenting? Peak boss mode with zero cheat codes 😂
@luvvcraving01 it's best to let children be children.... Forcing your child to grow up is not always the best option 💯
@luvvcraving01 multiple siblings can grow up in the same house, with the same parents, and have completely different childhoods.
@luvvcraving01 Parenting = High Expectations + High Support
@luvvcraving01 our energy shapes them more than your rules.
@luvvcraving01 people need to stop having kids unplanned
@luvvcraving01 Having kids doesn’t automatically make someone a parent. Too many people idolize having children and forget the parenting part. Parenting is more than food, clothes, and shelter. It’s emotional support, spiritual guidance, and teaching life skills. Some of you are just guardians.
@luvvcraving01 Paying for everything including a "roof over our head" is the literal BARE minimum of parents and my WHOLE LIFE I've been hearing that. If you did nothing you were supposed to do as a so-called "good parent" you wouldn't bring up shit like money. I didn't ask to be born
@luvvcraving01 Parenting is a privilege that everyone doesn't deserve. Too many irresponsible or abusive people becoming parents is a recipe for disaster
@luvvcraving01 If you had an accidental injury when you were younger and your parents couldn’t afford insurance and it was held over your head for the rest of your childhood.
@luvvcraving01 Knowing your child isn't automatic, I think some parents just say it tbh "I know my child" isn't always valid.
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@luvvcraving01 a lot of people don't have the patience for it & shouldn't feel like they have to have kids if they aren't ready. You can ruin decades built up of trust with your child in a single interaction where you're just too stressed to be mindful of how you speak to or treat them.
@luvvcraving01 It’s not about how you feel. It’s about how your child perceives their reality
@luvvcraving01 We can grow up in the same household, with the same parents, yet still experience different versions of them.
@luvvcraving01 My gf in highschool had a completely different accent than both her sisters and her mom. She spoke super country even though we all grew up in the same exact town. 🤣
@luvvcraving01 Siblings can grow up in the same house, with the same parents, and can have completely different childhoods and therefore different opinions on life.
@luvvcraving01 Every child grow up with a different version of there parents
@luvvcraving01 Parenting has to be loving, honest, fair and most of all respectful.
@luvvcraving01 Most parents try their best to raise the kids in a good way and manner, and at the end they turn out however they want to 😭
@luvvcraving01 It’s not as expensive as people make it.
@luvvcraving01 Parents should not be their kids friend but they should not be their enemy either.
@luvvcraving01 If ungowasezialini avoid taking your children to isikolo esikwalapha elalini.
@luvvcraving01 Both parents MUST be involved even if they no longer together.