multiple siblings can grow up in the same house, with the same parents, and have completely different childhoods.

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multiple siblings can grow up in the same house, with the same parents, and have completely different childhoods. https://t.co/5XetWzN8zG

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@Iamivy05 Parents love to say they raised all their kids the same, but in reality the firstborn got soldiers, the middle got negotiators, and the youngest got roommates.

@Iamivy05 Kids from the hood have childHOODS.. What does rich kids have as kids? Childsuburbans?

@Iamivy05 Same roof, different worlds. One child feels loved, another feels ignored. One remembers warmth, another remembers cold. Parents raise children, but children also raise memories.

@Iamivy05 True because siblings are totally different individuals with different choices of hobbies, likes and dislikes, friends and school stages.

@Iamivy05 @grok can you expand on this

@Iamivy05 Firstborn had a 7 p.m. bedtime. Youngest had a vape pen in kindergarten.

@Iamivy05 @BrittaniDeshay Cuz niggaz get more money and the younger siblings always live better lives

@Iamivy05 The firstborn is for practicing how to be a parent. Trial and error stuff. 🤣

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@Iamivy05 This is facts… especially when age gaps come into play

@Iamivy05 It’s wild how perspective shapes memory

@Iamivy05 I first heard this concept from an interview with Dr. Gabor Mate. Here is a short video: youtube.com/shorts/xclLL4j…

@Iamivy05 Its because we humans are unique and we tend to make different choices and have different ways of reasoning

@Iamivy05 Very true. Same walls, same parents but each child meets a different version of them, shaped by time, stress, and circumstance. One house, many childhoods.

I agree. There is 7 of us, all 3–5 years apart, born between ’85 and ’03. We all grew up in the same house, but in different eras. My parents went from being teen parents who barely knew what they were doing to becoming great ones as they gained experience. Because of the age gaps, we had different friends, hung out in different places, and lived through different experiences.

@Iamivy05 Family dynamics be crazy sometimes.

@Iamivy05 of course, especially a boy and girl, have it completely different in most instances. Also the first child and the last one have it totally different. Parents "get over it" quickly after the first one. Everything is not a miracle or and he/she is not a "genius".

@Iamivy05 Trueee. Siblings may share a home, but they each grow into their own person with different interests, friends, and paths in life.

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@Iamivy05 birth order alone will have you thinking y’all were raised by two completely different sets of parents

@Iamivy05 That’s because we are not the same person; how we interact with our environment and experience it is also very different.

@Iamivy05 Facts! Every child doesn’t have the same interests, friends, thoughts etc. as their siblings

@Iamivy05 its unavoidable for parents to have that favorite child, I know it cause I am 🤣

@Iamivy05 Yes. each sibling’s experience is shaped by birth order, personality, timing, and even how parents’ lives change over the years. Same house, but different worlds.

@Iamivy05 Cause some feel they are neglected 🥲

Totally facts, @Iamivy05! In my opinion, it's like parents are directors rewriting the script for each kid—firstborn gets the strict bootcamp edition, middles navigate the plot twists solo, and the baby? Spoiled sequel with all the extras. Same set, wildly different movies! 😅🏠 Who's got sibling stories to share? @grok @SuperGrok , unpack this family dynamic? #SiblingRealities #ParentingTruths #DifferentChildhoods

@Iamivy05 Fr Same house but it feels like we were raised by two different sets of parents 😭

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@Iamivy05 Especially if there's a golden child in the group

@Iamivy05 Ones a golden child and the others a scape goat!

@Iamivy05 True most times because of favoritism from the parents

@Iamivy05 100% - I'm the villain of the Family History now

@Iamivy05 True

@Iamivy05 Facts birth order alone can make one kid the experiment,another the favorite,and the last one feral 😂

Baby but grew up like the middle child because everyone else was falling apart. 4th grade I told my mom this boy brought condoms to the party and I was like “what are you gonna do with those it’s not like you can use em” She said “I knew I didn’t have to worry about you” the one time I didn’t take something literally 😭😂

@Iamivy05 How true is this @grok

@Iamivy05 Straight facts

@Iamivy05 true. parents will always have a favourite even though they try soo hard to hide it

@Iamivy05 This is actually so crazy but real asf