born to be a lover .. forced to learn detachment & boundaries
@1Futurewizard So sad because love is meant to connect us, but life forces us to protect us.
@1Futurewizard I've read somewhere "Love and empathy without boundaries is self sabotage" And that holds true in many, many cases. Humans, for the most part, are just....not worth it. Not worth you.
@1Futurewizard @ShareseMichelle You are not forced to learn anything, those are choices and the wrong ones
@1Futurewizard thatst he bare minimum though. so you cannot get hurt easily.
@1Futurewizard Be selclective on who gets the space and attention
@1Futurewizard That balance is tough! 💔 Learning to love while protecting your heart is a journey. It's all about growth and finding that sweet spot! ✨
@1Futurewizard Blud, its really cold out here. I understand why parents never wanted us to be in relationships
@1Futurewizard @mynameskey It means we have to: •Vet the women we sleep with like our life depends on it. Because legally? It does. •Move in wisdom, not just impulse. •And realize: there are no protections for us if things go left — unless we’ve already done the legal work ahead of time.
@1Futurewizard @mynameskey A woman can take a pill to avoid 18 years of motherhood = freedom. •A man attempts to avoid 18 years of fatherhood = crime. Let that marinate.
@1Futurewizard This shud be in book of genesis ya heard
@1Futurewizard @_screenshoter screenshot this with black background
@1Futurewizard @mynameskey The real fear for the system is this: If men could legally opt out like women can… Millions of dollars in child support would vanish overnight. So they cloak it in “justice” and “protecting life” — when it’s really about keeping the leash on men financially and legally.
@1Futurewizard You were never born a lover. If you are learning to detach.
@1Futurewizard That's way so, right on point. Just on the, right spot.
@1Futurewizard It's for you to be a healthy lover giving and receiving healthy love!!
@1Futurewizard @wuteverbish True love is when you actually have zero expectations
@1Futurewizard where are the tools to use you? I’ve been looking for em