Confident Money 💵 Nate @nate_0005

A lot of men don’t resonate with traditional therapy. Not because they don’t struggle. Not because they’re too proud. Not because they “don’t want help.” But because sitting in a room talking about their feelings doesn’t feel like progress. Why traditional therapy doesn’t…

A tough lesson I am learning: Listen to your body It is more in tune than your mind It remembers stress, it remembers trauma Your body will hold onto things Honestly my mind is tougher than my body So I push and push Eventually your body pushes back though

I often ask myself "what are we doing to ourselves by being so busy?" We have friends that can't find time because of kids sports Others that work so much that they struggle to even see their own family much less others Its time to slow down y'all Build a better life

I love this line from one of @ZubyMusic songs "never sells dreams, cuz Id rather sell hope" I am here to convince you there is hope! There isn't a genie that will make your dreams come true But YOU can! Your attitude matters Belief is the first step Now go make it happen

"Tell your money where to go instead of wondering where it went" A budget is a plan for your money It isn't about restriction, it is about freedom Aligning your money habits with your values is crucial Too many of us, just blindly spend and then wonder why we are stressed

What are you solving for? I solve for peace of mind This means simplicity, routine, and efficiency That is what works for me What are you solving for in life? What are you solving for in your money? Does your life reflect what you are solving for?

Do you ask yourself: How do I want to be remembered? When I think about lost love ones, I don't think about what we did together I think about who they were as a person Their character, their demeanor, their actions Those are the things that make you successful or not

It can be scary when you first go into a fire You can't see-smoke makes it dark You can't hear-fire is louder than you might think You can't move fast-but you need to But once you do it, it gets easier What burning building in your life do you need to run into?

"On the road less traveled there aren't any traffic jams" Don't fear doing something different or being someone different Be weird Debt free Fit and Healthy Loving spouse All things that make you different these days But also things that simply make you better

During an experiment scientists discovered that trees without wind would die The wind strengthens them, preparing them to stand tall When you have struggles be thankful Because like the wind for those trees YOU are becoming stronger YOU will stand tall

Vince Lombardi said: "Tradition motivates. Tradition helps players subordinate their individual interests to the need of the team. If you don't have traditions, make some up." While this applies to many things, we should strive to do this in our families, with our kids.

"Two wolves battle inside your heart... One is wise and kind, and the other is vicious and cruel... Who will win? The one you feed." I hadn't heard this fable until relatively recently It made its mark on me You have to have positive inputs if you want positive results

My boy and I are reading a book series together It has been a lot of fun even though he wants to ruin the mystery for me at every turn Make memories Build relationships Help others This is the path to fulfillment

Is change really possible? "Thats just the way I am" "I was raised this way" "The system is against me" "If I had this or that, then I could" All of these excuses are what my Dad would call HOGWASH You can change It is only a question of if you change on purpose

You can be normal if you want But its a trap College with 6 figure debt Entry level job/low pay New car Thats when you first start to notice HAVE to buy a house (approved for more than you can afford) Struggle the next 30 years with no money "Thats a no for me dawg"

When is the last time you sat in silence? I know for me it was rare I truly believe it is beneficial though Im guessing it has benefits to your nervous system No stimulation promotes relaxation Make this part of your daily routine and see if there isn't a difference

Here are 3 things I must do daily: Something Spiritual-Read the Bible and pray Something Physical-Exercise of any sort Something Mental-Read or watch with the intent to learn None take up much time But defining a winning day is crucial to a peaceful life

Do you track your spending? Does it align with your values? Does it align with your money goals? Are you confident you will win with money? Not just get by but truly WIN? Most don't They just go with the flow and see what happens Don't be like most people

Grow Change Adapt Learn Persevere Only then do you Win

Are you lost? Do you have guiding values? Do you have daily habits that match? Do you invest in yourself to ensure you will achieve your goals? You can get clear on who you are, who you want to be, and how to get there It takes intentionality though And that is tough