Pleasing everyone + Saying yes to everything + No boundaries = Living a life for others
@rajshamani Boundaries aren’t walls, they’re the map to your freedom. Saying no is the ultimate yes to yourself.
@rajshamani Boundaries build your real life. Not people-pleasing.
@rajshamani You can’t build your life if your calendar belongs to everyone else. If you don’t draw the line, the world won’t stop crossing it. When you people-please, overcommit, and allow zero boundaries, you’re not living. You’re performing for others.
@rajshamani Do not Live others way of life, Watch your own Dreams, Work hard, Don't listen to others. Make your Dreams True.
@rajshamani That's the perfect recipe for losing yourself while trying to please the world. Real freedom begins when you stop living on others' terms and start honouring your own limits. Your life isn't a public service, it's your one precious journey.
@rajshamani If you never say no, your life stops being yours.
@rajshamani Yes you said it Right We should do opposite of it actually 👍🏻
@rajshamani Saying yes to everything is still a decision. Just not yours.
@rajshamani This is the fastest way to live a life dictated by others, not designed by you.
@rajshamani Live a life for you. Others get to choose to be with you or not.
@rajshamani setting boundaries and prioritizing one's own needs and desires is crucial for maintaining a sense of identity and autonomy
@rajshamani Thanks, genius. I couldn't have figured that out myself.
@rajshamani You've got it. Living to please others is a trap. When you say yes to everyone you're saying no to yourself. That’s the real loss.
@rajshamani Setting boundaries is the first step to living a life that feels truly yours clarity meets consistency.
@rajshamani Every “yes” to them is a silent “no” to you.
@rajshamani Sad to see so much of Western philosophy here in the replies. Serving others out of service mentality is the actual dharma in Eastern philosophy. BHAGWAT GITA is all about it.
@rajshamani live an intentional life. follow your values, not others.
@rajshamani That’s the fastest way to lose yourself. Constantly bend to meet everyone else’s expectations and your own needs vanish. You start existing, not living. But peace begins the moment you say “no” without guilt and choose yourself without apology.
@rajshamani Setting boundaries isn’t selfish it’s how you protect your energy and your vision.
@rajshamani True. You have to understand who you can help and how
@rajshamani A) The internet is the greatest wealth machine of our time 1. Those who learn to sell, write, or build online will never be broke again. 2. Your reach is your leverage—use it or stay invisible.
@rajshamani Yeah, that’s a fast track to burnout and losing sight of what matters to you.
@rajshamani Live a life for you, not others.
The arithmetic of people-pleasing always ends in subtraction. each accommodating "yes" slowly erasing the person you were meant to become. When boundaries dissolve in the acid of constant agreement, what remains is a hollow shell performing someone else's version of your life while your authentic self suffocates beneath the weight of borrowed expectations.
@rajshamani I spent so long trying to be “nice” and “agreeable” to everyone. I thought having no boundaries made me kind. Years later, I realized: all it made me was lost.
@rajshamani "A life which is not lived for others isn't worth living" suggests that a life focused solely on personal gain is ultimately unfulfilling -Albert Einstein
@rajshamani I agree! People will take for grant also.
