i dont need to go thru your phone, make you block people, keep you from going out, etc. i want my partner to love me and be faithful to me bc it makes them happy, not bc i forced them into it lol.
@yayafrost Trust grows when love is free.
@yayafrost something i learned as i grew up. i don’t want to have to teach anybody to love me, be loyal to me. i just want them to be
@yayafrost ion wanna be the reason u loyal i wanna be the reminder 'cause if i gotta police ur love my nervous system already know this ain’t love it’s just fear dressed up in commitment & i’ve been there. controlling ain’t safety. it’s grief in real-time.
@yayafrost Relationships work best when there's mutual love and trust
@yayafrost Love works best without control, and loyalty comes from the heart, not from rules or fear. Takes a while to learn that.
@yayafrost you say that like you’ve never cried yourself to sleep wondering if they actually would choose you freely.
@yayafrost Thank you!! I’m not begging u to give me the bare minimum ima just simply remove myself bc I don’t even give myself the bare minimum tf.
@yayafrost trust built on genuine connection is unbreakable. this perspective is a game changer in relationships. more need to embrace it.
@yayafrost All that does long term is lead to them resenting you .
@yayafrost Most beautiful quote I heard from a woman about love: "Love is not my man finding me the most attractive woman. It's actually him knowing that im not and still deciding to love me everyday like I am 🫳🏿🎤 Y'all wouldn't believe who it was from tho😳🤣
@yayafrost this is exactly how I see relationships and call it what you want but I’ll make it easy for a mf to cheat on me I won’t be strict but I do have boundaries if your for me than your for me the whole narrative is to let you be like a flower
@yayafrost Thank you for this i thought i was the only one! My friends be looking at me crazy when i say ion trip about what a nigga do behind my back😭if he for me he for me if not the fuck up will come to light but he’s gonna be the one hurt not me! Ion chase I replace 🤷🏾♀️
@yayafrost & if you force me, i am 100% not respecting you
@yayafrost ‼️‼️‼️‼️ this is why you have to be direct with me lol otherwise imma think you playing
@yayafrost Exactly. I’ve never gone through a man’s phone or done any of the other toxic policing. If I’m with you it’s because I have complete trust in you. Once you break that trust it’s over though
@yayafrost And you literally can’t force them. They’ll do whatever they want
@yayafrost i agree heavy, as long as boundaries are set live your life baby.
