And to my friends on the left, talking to someone is not an indication of universal agreement. It’s an indication that we have started to become America again, where we actually have conversations about our opinions. And we do it without hating each other.
When I ask for decency, I hear the same from left and right:
“Why should I care about decency?” [When “they” are so awful.]
So many people not caring about decency is how we get constant indecency.
When I ask for decency, I hear the same from left and right:
“Why should I care about decency?” [When “they” are so awful.]
So many people not caring about decency is how we get constant indecency.
Every solution that has had a real impact began with a disagreement over how to solve a problem.
If we approach disagreement as an opportunity to create change, we'll get a lot more done! 🛠️
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I recommend remembering how you've been wrong, how your views have changed, how you may still be wrong in various ways. This will keep you open to change and make you more discerning and less self-righteous.
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Talk to a smart person from the other side, and you'll probably learn that they're nothing like the image you've constructed.
They might have some good points, but it's also great if you walk away thinking, “yep, that opinion is nuts, but that guy was actually pretty cool.”
Talk to a smart person from the other side, and you'll probably learn that they're nothing like the image you've constructed.
They might have some good points, but it's also great if you walk away thinking, “yep, that opinion is nuts, but that guy was actually pretty cool.”
Engaging with opposing views can lead to several great outcomes like:
- Changing their mind
- Changing your mind
- Challenging and strengthening your views against opposing arguments
- Recognizing areas of common ground or at least each other's humanity
Meanwhile, huddling in…
Engaging with opposing views can lead to several great outcomes like:
- Changing their mind
- Changing your mind
- Challenging and strengthening your views against opposing arguments
- Recognizing areas of common ground or at least each other's humanity
Meanwhile, huddling in…
Really engaging with others—whether in a debate or just a conversation—means listening. I may not end up agreeing with you, but let me see if I can first understand what you're saying. Engage the argument, don't attack the person making it. @HdxAcademy
If you're a Democrat or Republican, how well do you think you understand the other side? How often do you actually talk to the other side?
Dialog with a Republican dialogapp.co/public-dialogs…
Contrary to the presidential debate we just witnessed, well-intended leaders can still have respectful conversations about complex problems.
It was a true joy to share the stage w/ @VanJones68 at Johns Hopkins, where we debated the role of gov’t in solving environmental issues!
So true! And when you only talk to like-minded people, you might not even know that you're "nutpicking."
It’s so easy to ignore the other side’s strongest arguments when you discuss an issue with a group of people who all hold the same opinion - you might not even know what…
So true! And when you only talk to like-minded people, you might not even know that you're "nutpicking."
It’s so easy to ignore the other side’s strongest arguments when you discuss an issue with a group of people who all hold the same opinion - you might not even know what…
I’ve been intentionally spending as much time offline as possible (given obvious constraints with my career).
And you guys. I have to report, it’s so much better out there.
People are nice, and interesting, and funny. Everyone mostly gets along. Even political convos, when…
Surprisingly good things happen when we bust our bubbles.
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I think about these charts quite a bit. If you want to know why people often freak out when you talk about crossing party lines, they're operating under false impressions about the other side. People consistently think their opponents are more extreme than they really are /1
Sure, my country has flaws. So do my parents, siblings, kids, and wife (ok, maybe not my wife - love you, baby!), but I'm damn lucky to have them all.
I occasionally think about the flaws, but I mostly focus on the lucky-to-have-them part.
Talking to the “other side” is hard for many reasons.
Conflict can make us want to avoid interacting with the “other side” — for all sorts of reasons. It’s uncomfortable; we’re angered by their criticisms and animosity; we’re afraid we may be seen as traitors by our political…
I saw this when I served in the California Army National Guard while living in San Francisco. A friend in the Guard once asked me if I got harassed while wearing my uniform in San Francisco. In the real San Francisco, people thanked me for my service - the same as anywhere else.
I saw this when I served in the California Army National Guard while living in San Francisco. A friend in the Guard once asked me if I got harassed while wearing my uniform in San Francisco. In the real San Francisco, people thanked me for my service - the same as anywhere else.
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